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Thimble & Bucket.
Source :-
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/a-special-love/message/17282
I'll give you a small story - a thimble & a small bucket.
My happiness, is like a thimble - small & holds little water. If I pour a
glass of water into it, the water overflows - several times over....
Its like when im happy. - When im happy, EVERYONE knows about it - (but
not the reason, unless I tell)
I cant help it - Im just naturally happy - (most of the time anyways).. - I
cant hide it...
Now - the bucket.. - Represents any other feelings I have..
I pour the glass of water into the bucket, & nothing happens - a small
puddle in the bottom. I have to fill the bucket with a LOT of glasses of
water - in order to overflow..
If im angry or fustrated etc - It takes a bit more than one glass to let the
feelings show on the surface. Even I dont know the feelings sometimes...
Although - that was a few years ago - I've begun to feel my own feelings now
(with Patricias help)..
Now - Where was my point going ? - re-reading...
Oh yep - strong emotional ones -
Can someone tell me if this is useful ? I think im blabbing here...
Ah yes - with love - its a very powerful emotion - It fills the bucket to
overflowing - without any effort - Guys cant handle it, & get confused.
(hope i wont get slapped here..)
- but - after a while - when they realise what the emotion is - Their
bucket increases in size, so its not over-flowing.
Just let him figure things out for himself - find out where his bucket is
placed in his life, soak up all the spilled liquid, Clean up his basement &
begin to re-fill his new larger king-size bucket.
Just be caring, let him know youre there for him - whatever happens.. - Let
his love grow for you...
G.
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