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Thimble & Bucket.


Source :- http://groups.yahoo.com/group/a-special-love/message/17282

I'll give you a small story - a thimble & a small bucket.

My happiness, is like a thimble - small & holds little water. If I pour a glass of water into it, the water overflows - several times over....

Its like when im happy. - When im happy, EVERYONE knows about it - (but not the reason, unless I tell) I cant help it - Im just naturally happy - (most of the time anyways).. - I cant hide it...

Now - the bucket.. - Represents any other feelings I have..

I pour the glass of water into the bucket, & nothing happens - a small puddle in the bottom. I have to fill the bucket with a LOT of glasses of water - in order to overflow..

If im angry or fustrated etc - It takes a bit more than one glass to let the feelings show on the surface. Even I dont know the feelings sometimes...

Although - that was a few years ago - I've begun to feel my own feelings now (with Patricias help)..

Now - Where was my point going ? - re-reading...

Oh yep - strong emotional ones - Can someone tell me if this is useful ? I think im blabbing here...

Ah yes - with love - its a very powerful emotion - It fills the bucket to overflowing - without any effort - Guys cant handle it, & get confused. (hope i wont get slapped here..)

- but - after a while - when they realise what the emotion is - Their bucket increases in size, so its not over-flowing.

Just let him figure things out for himself - find out where his bucket is placed in his life, soak up all the spilled liquid, Clean up his basement & begin to re-fill his new larger king-size bucket.

Just be caring, let him know youre there for him - whatever happens.. - Let his love grow for you...

G.



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